The minefield of relationships as an Aspergirl... part 1
This is me with my friend Jen. This was a long time ago when I was lucky enough to live in the same town as she did and we spent a lot of time together. She had a knack for making me laugh... She has been my friend for almost 25 years now and her oldest daughter is on the spectrum. She was the first person I told when I was diagnosed and true to form, she was amazing about it. I am so lucky to have her in my life! * The big 'R' word- Relationships. I'm pretty sure relationships are hard for everyone, but for someone like me who is on the spectrum, they are like wading through a minefield in the middle of a war. It's interesting to have been diagnosed so late in life. It's a relief and it's enlightening. But it's also depressing and overwhelming. All those relationships from the past that I have lost or that were dysfunctional have more clarity. And all those who I had a good relationship with or who have stuck by me are even more special. Relationships...